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Rest for the Weary - February 7, 2022

Stephanie Mays • February 7, 2022

This is a little longer than most "Tale of Two Sisters" updates.

It includes some significant news regarding both of us.

We appreciate ALL of the prayers and support!

Lacie, like many of us, has endured a significant amount of challenges and trauma throughout the last few years. We learned of Lacie’s recent thyroid cancer diagnosis on January 4, 2022, after months of mishaps with her blood work being drawn improperly. She had been waiting since August to have a biopsy done. That finally happened on December 22, 2021. Now, we have both found ourselves facing the undesirable diagnosis and word that no one wants to hear spoken over them, cancer.


How can one word have such an emotional impact? How can one word coupled with a medical diagnosis be so challenging? The other question that is hardest for me to reflect on is, how will my sister get through this challenge when the medical care inside the gated community where she resides is not equipped to handle it? How?


The other side of the coin is this, I have been given access to exceptional surgeons, doctors, therapies, and treatments all along my journey with breast cancer. Oh, how I wish my sister had access to the same.


What I find encouraging is that Lacie has not given up in spite of all she has been through. She commented to me recently that “it is not in my DNA to give up.” I could hear her courage. I could hear her determination. I could hear her ability to trust that there is a way and she is finding it, often with rest.


One way she finds hope and keeps the determination to not give up is by helping others. She does this in many ways. I will do my best to describe one of the ways she gives back. I hope I do it justice.


There are many challenges that girls face while being incarcerated. Believe it or not, they face some of the same challenges that we do on the outside with a need for basic provisions being met for medical, vision, dental, hygiene, and food. This is where Lacie began seeing a need and putting her money where her heart was.


Over a period of time, she saved her tithe money - basically, she obediently set aside ten percent of any financial support or gifts she received, just as the Lord commands us to do. Then she began asking the Lord what she was supposed to do with it, how did God want her to use these funds?


What began was a project she calls “Vision of Hope”. Through her efforts, she was able to get permission to have glasses sent in from outside vendors. It was a process that required many steps and assistance from trustworthy and caring friends on the “outside”. After learning what could be done and what was allowed, she was able to provide 10 girls with glasses in 2021. The 11th is in process and she continues to set aside her 10% and use the funds so girls can see, read, and overall have a better quality of life.


You may ask, well, doesn’t the prison supply glasses? Well, if you want to call it “glasses”. There is only one style for both men and women. They are not made well, do not last, and do not fit properly. There is also a cost. It has proven to be more affordable to order them from the outside. Lacie was able to get permission to do this on a case-by-case basis and order glasses for girls. The results have impacted many! You can trust that whatever financial support you send to her, it is going to be used wisely and prayerfully.


Just the other day, the Lord put another girl on Lacie’s heart that needed glasses. The first obstacle to overcome is having a current eyeglass prescription which doesn’t sound like a big deal, but it is. Eye exams are not always accessible since the pandemic began requiring lockdowns and restricting providers from coming “inside” and providing assistance.


The lack of eye care is one of the many things that has impacted their quality of life. If the girls have a current eyeglass prescription, Lacie is able to assist them. This includes glasses for reading. Many do not have what we consider a basic necessity - reading glasses - and what Lacie has been able to assist in providing has truly brought vision and hope! It has been remarkable and such a blessing to have her describe the process and how it blesses the girls she is able to assist.


Often, Lacie calls me on a regular basis with some sort of amazing God story. To tell you all of them will require writing a book of chapters describing His goodness working through her. It inspires me to not give up on my own cancer battle. Her faithfulness in honoring God has been a tremendous asset in my life since we reunited in July 2019. Each time she tells me about another way God has worked through her life to impact the girls she resides with and I tell her, “If you keep allowing God to keep using you like this, we may never get you out of there!”


Our goal is for her to have her freedom back and to be exonerated. We continue to pursue justice in her case and we will until the truth about the charges that were falsely brought against her are corrected. It has been a situation where the more we rest, the more God moves. Lacie and I are learning the value of “resting in the Lord”, literally.


Matthew 11:28-30 “Then Jesus said, ‘Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’” (ESV)


Ironically, we are both scheduled for surgery in the next month. I will be having a double mastectomy with reconstruction at Methodist Hospital in Houston on Tuesday, March 1st. Lacie will be having her right thyroid removed. She has growths on her left thyroid as well but they have not been biopsied yet. It is possible that she will have both of them removed. We are still waiting for the details. Her medical journey is very different than mine since I have access to providers, can call them, get copies of results, and see them without any restrictions. Lacie’s situation is pretty much the opposite and she has no control over any of it. She has to trust God in some big ways and IS!!!


I am believing God for creative miracles and for her thyroid to be restored completely.


I trust that many of you are finding the gentleness of Jesus to be real for you in this season. As well, that you are finding rest. I know that I often feel guilty for resting because I always want to be on the go doing something. One of the benefits of healing from cancer has been learning to “rest” in ways I have never been able to before. It has been a necessary learning experience and one that I have learned to embrace. Rest cannot be avoided. Remember, it is actually a commandment!!!


Thank you, each and every one of you, for your prayers, texts, calls, and support. Thank you for sending cards and letters to both of us. She is touched that so many of you care for her when most of you have never met her in person.


Resting in His promises!

Big Sis' Stephanie

Lil' Sis' Lacie



Below are answers to questions that many of you have asked.

I hope the information is helpful.



1. Can I visit Lacie?  How do I visit Lacie?


I know a few of you have asked how to actually be able to “visit” Lacie. One way to actually "visit" Lacie is via video. If that is something you are interested in doing, I have attached the “CODOC Visitor Application” below for you to begin the process. Once you have completed the application, include a copy of your ID - make sure the address on your ID and the application are the same - you can send it via email to:


doc_dwcf_visiting@state.co.us 


(please copy and paste this email into your email and attach the completed application and a copy of your driver's license)


Once your application has been approved to “visit”, you will be able to set up an account with GTL. in-person. It costs $6.25 for a 25 minutes session and it is worth every penny as long as the system is working properly! Here is the link for GTL https://codoc.gtlvisitme.com/app


For in-person visits, once the application has been processed and approved, you will be able to schedule a visit on a Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. Requests for visits need to be made Monday - Thursday before the visitation weekend. You can request via the email above and will receive a confirmation via email as well.


You can find the visitation hours and requirements via this link:  https://cdoc.colorado.gov/facilities/denver-complex/denver-womens-correctional-facility


2. How do I write to Lacie?


There are two ways to do this. You can send letters to her the old-fashioned way via snail mail. Make sure you include her ID # 145499 on the envelope.


Her address is:


Lacie Nelson

#145499

PO Box 392005

Denver, CO 80239


Or


You can also send “email” type letters and pictures using Jpay. Download the app or go online and create an account. You will need to purchase “stamps” to use Jpay. The cost is minimal. Here is the link to access it online https://www.jpay.com/

I found it easier to send pictures via the app on my phone. Either option is pretty easy to set-up. You will need to know the following information:

set up

Name: Lacie Nelson

Inmate ID # 145499

And that she is in Colorado Department of Corrections


Please make sure you include your address when you send her a Jpay or letter if you would like her to write you back!


3. How do I send Lacie a financial blessing?


I have found that the best way to send funds is through GTL. I have learned that they have the lowest transaction rates - https://web.connectnetwork.com/


You will need to create an account.

To do so and you will need her name, ID#, and facility name.


Name: Lacie Nelson

Inmate ID #: 145499

Facility: Colorado Department of Corrections

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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Chrystie All of this could not have been possible if we had not had your prayers, encouragement, and support ! This email/letter of celebration and all the accomplishments have been made possible because you stood by us and believed! Thank you!! There is more to come!!! 2022 is a year of many “firsts” and we continue to stand with Lacie. She in many ways continues to stand with you too. She is eager to meet everyone and begin a life “outside” of the locked gates and doors. That date has yet to be determined, however, we are hopeful it is coming. Please stand with us in agreement as God MOVES some hearts of people in higher office. God has promised Lacie that, “He will do the unthinkable. He will do the unthinkable to set Lacie in a place of freedom. To set Lacie in a place of freedom.” Freer than she has ever been! 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This year, there have been several "firsts" for Lacie and me. Some of the “firsts” were unexpected and unwelcome, others were serious and challenging. I think it is common for many around the globe right now, especially for those who are incarcerated. There have been many changes “on the inside” of prisons since the pandemic began. As well, there has been a significant reduction in staff and guards which has greatly impacted the daily routines of those who are incarcerated, including the women at DWCF - Denver Women's Correctional Facility. It has made a difficult situation even more challenging for all. Fortunately, visitation has been able to stay open most of the weekends with only a few changes. A few months ago, in July, I sent you an update, Tale of Two Sisters - “Freer Than I Have Ever Been” - a copy is included at the bottom of this post. It included details about Lacie’s graduation and the miraculous reunion that took place with both of her sons. Multiple miracles occurred in that first week of June 2022. Lacie’s biggest desire was to have both of her sons there to visit her , for the first time, since she entered the gates of Denver Women’s Correctional Facility on April 1, 2009 . It had been over thirteen years since she had seen her two boys together! (Pictures attached in this email.) Lacie earned her first Associate’s Degree . She has achieved NUMEROUS milestones in her education, however, this was the first that we were all able to witness her accomplishments and be able to attend. (We are still waiting on these pictures.) Having a graduation "on the inside" where family and guests were allowed to mingle with Lacie and the fellow residents of DWCF. It was a great experience. It was also another first! There were lots of firsts. It was a BIG DEAL!!! Little did we know that two months later, on August 12, 2022 , there would be another first. A sibling reunion and another BIG DEAL!!!! I will do my best to explain how this came about and once you hear for yourself, you will probably agree, that it is pretty amazing! On July 17, 2019, I saw Lacie for the first time in 17 years . (For more details, please read the blog "A New Beginning" dated August 26, 2022 - or see below at the end of this post). It was most certainly "A New Beginning” for Lacie and me and it was a long time coming. Four months later, in November 2019 , another unplanned “New Beginning” would occur. Our oldest brother and the firstborn of our father found us. He didn’t even know we existed. Here is how it happened! On November 5, 2019, I received an email that had been received and forwarded to me from a cousin that is active on Ancestry.com. The email would explain how this individual had been adopted and was searching for his father’s birth family. That email was from our brother. He had found us! Long story short, I had tried finding our oldest brother in the early 90s and after a few roadblocks , I had given up. I often wondered how I could/would eventually find him. Now, years later and months after seeing Lacie for the first time in a long time, God was doing another miracle in continuing to restore our family . It is a promise and dream I have been searching for since 1990. So, later that day, on November 5, 2019, I connected with our big brother Wayne and his wife, Margaret! On 11/19/19 , all of us met halfway from our homes at my friend’s house in El Campo, TX. On that day, Lacie called and was able to talk to Wayne and hear his voice for the first time . It was the best we could do in having all of us be "together" at the same time. (Pictures attached in this email.) Fast forward a couple of years and some delays that included multiple challenges including but not limited to: the pandemic visitation being closed down constant lockdowns in the prison for 23 hours a day the overlooked lung infection that Lacie endured numerous lab samples being done improperly - within the prison health system two lobes of Lacie's right lung being removed her recovery from lung surgery during a covid outbreak isolation in the prison’s infirmary - a BIG DEAL!!! me (Stephanie) being diagnosed with breast cancer - twice having three surgeries myself and preparing for a fourth The MOST AMAZING thing happened . . . . ! ! ! ! WE HAD A SIBLING REUNION!!! (Insert applause and cheering!!!) The three of us , along with Ken and Margaret , our spouses, were able to be together for the first time! Yes, that’s right!! We had a sibling reunion on August 12, 2022! The miracles just keep coming and we are beyond blessed to have each other in our lives. (Pictures attached below.) There was something very specia l that we experienced during our sibling reunion. The love and support for one another permeated the DWCF Visitation room . Laughter erupted from our table, even while being overseen by the guards at DWCF. During our sibling reunion, we discussed the real possibility of there being additional siblings! We know of at least two others - the second born (no contact since 1995) and the youngest who was located in March 2020. Please keep them in your prayers. No one else could have understood what it was like to be together for the first time. The value and strength we drew from one another were remarkable. Our common mannerisms and facial features were only some of the topics we discussed. Mostly, we sat with Lacie and admired her passion, zest for life, and the pursuit of her faith, even in the most challenging of circumstances that she has had to endure for the last 13 + years. To be honest, I shed a few tears. Some moments were just too much for words . That emotion and intensity increased when Wayne, our oldest brother , suggested we play a game called “I Wish” . The tears showed up in all of us as we took our turns expressing our greatest desires for Lacie to be exonerated of the horrible accusations that ambushed her and her family so many years ago. It was remarkable to hear each one of us express our deepest “I wish” desires for Lacie: Wayne - “I wish we could all get up, walk out of this room, through those gates, past the razor wire, and leave this place behind, forever, right now, and no one would stop us.” Lacie - “I am spiritually free. Now, I want to be physically free. I am ready to get out, leave this place, move to Texas, and have a steak dinner with A-1 Sauce.” Margaret - “I wish a judge would stop and take the time to hear and see the truth in this case.” Stephanie - “Let’s start making a list of the people you want to have at your steak dinner. I am preparing for you to be with us.” Ken - “I am ready for your mission here at DWCF to be completed and for your next mission to begin in Texas.” My mom, Carole, via text - Earlier that morning, my mom sent a scripture. I was able to get a Bible from the guards and we were able to read it together. Psalm 128:1-2 “Blessed is everyone who fears the Lord, who walks in his ways! You shall eat the fruit of the labor of your hands, you shall be blessed and it shall be well with you.” There were many pauses and moments of silence, as we wiped the tears from our eyes. Soon, very soon, we believe that each one of these wishes will become answers to our prayers. We are expecting it. We know it will be a BIG DEAL!!! As this first sibling reunion came to a close, we all held hands and prayed together for the first time . Ever. Then, as the clock approached 3:00 PM MST - we all said our goodbyes and hugged Lacie. It was difficult for the four of us to leave, to walk away and leave Lacie behind . “Lord, hear our prayers,” was a cry from the depths of our souls. “Lord, hear our prayers.” Wayne and Margaret spent the next day, Saturday, with Lacie. Ken and I were able to be with her for a few hours on Sunday before returning home. It was a weekend for the record books! A BIG DEAL!!! Something inside of me is convinced that God’s fingerprints were all over us during all these years when we were apart ! His hand brought us together . We will continue to hold on to His hand. To trust Him. To see how He brings us closer together. Closer in our walk with Him. I am convinced that if you have never trusted God to walk with you, YOU CAN!!! How can I pray for you or encourage you to trust Him? Please let me know. ALSO. . . . It is Lacie’s birthday on September 15th!!! The best gift would be to send her a card and support Vision of Hope DOC! This is a miracle-making opportunity that began when Lacie was recovering from surgery. See her story here: https://www.visionofhopedoc.com/about Almost 50 girls have received the gift of vision since late last year and more are requesting Lacie’s assistance every day. Quality prescription eyeglasses are not easy to come by “on the inside” and Vision of Hope DOC provides a solution . Please visit https://www.visionofhopedoc.com/ for more details. Learn how it began, and how you can be part of “Restoring sight to God’s daughters by bringing light and love into dark places." It is a little-known fact that our big brother Wayne came up with the saying "Seeing is Freeing" for Lacie’s Vision of Hope DOC website. We - her siblings - are proud of Lacie. Very proud. As always, thank you for reading. Feel free to share this email or any of the previous ones. I am beyond thankful that you took the time to read this entire update ! More than anything, I hope it was a blessing and we thank you for the prayers. God is doing some big things! We can see it! Middle Sis’ Stephanie Send Lacie a birthday (even belated) card and or letter to: Lacie Nelson #145499 PO Box 392005 Denver, CO 80239
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